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What other projects are you working on, books or otherwise?
Right now, I’m finishing up a work of fiction. I needed something lighter and less research driven this winter/spring. As I complete that project and release that, I have three more non-fiction ideas that I’m tossing around. It is interesting because at the same time, I thought up four non-fiction projects that sat well with me and four fiction projects. So I would love to weave back and forth between the two — with the heavier topics being balanced by the lighter ones.

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This is the third of a four-part interview with Melissa Ford, author of Navigating the Land of IF: Understanding Infertility and Exploring Your Options. Melissa is also the author of the wildly popular blog, Stirrup Queens, the site many infertile people find as they search for information on infertility treatments, adoption (domestic, international, open, kinship), donor gametes, and childfree living.

Why would someone who is NOT experiencing infertility want to pick up this book?
To better understand someone they know who is experiencing infertility. I don’t know how many people who are not experiencing infertility will pick up this book, but that’s okay. The words are there for everyone to use who is experiencing infertility and they can pass them along in conversation with people outside the experience.

How different would your own IF journey have been if you’d had this book?
I probably would have felt less lonely. The exercises in the book I used to make decision and I included one of the real decision webs we made before we started treatments. And I took my sister’s advice to heart a lot and still do in living my life. But I wish I had known about the online community back then. It was small, but still existed. I wish I had known about blogs and read them.

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Many people who consider open adoption do so after enduring infertility. Below is an excerpt from an interview with Melissa Ford, author of Navigating the Land of IF: Understanding Infertility and Exploring Your Options. She likens infertility to an island, with neighborhoods such as fertility treatments, donor gametes, adoption, and living childfree.

Everyone gets off the island eventually, one way or another. What neighborhoods did you hang out in and what was your path off the island?
It’s an interesting question because I had the neighbourhood I lived in (and most of us only own one home), but many neighbourhoods that I visited due to friends or family members living in other spaces. Many of my childhood friends ended up going through infertility with me, and, of course, I met people along the way through Resolve and now blogs.

In addition, I think the way off the island is really an emotional journey. You can have children and still not resolve your infertility or you can stop the family building process and still not resolve your infertility. There is a saying with Resolve that children resolve childlessness, not infertility. And I find that to be very true.

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In MY day, when people found out they couldn’t have children, they surrendered their power to the men in the white coats. We allowed the men in white coats to poke and prod us without completely understanding the whys. We suffered alone, isolated. And we liked it! We loved it!

Today, wussy modern people confronted with infertility will have a much easier time of it, thanks to the recently released book, Navigating the Land of IF: Understanding Infertility and Exploring Your Options. The Land of IF is a guidebook for a place just off the mainland, a place where one in six people find themselves marooned. Author Melissa Ford, has explored every nook and cranny of this formerly insular jungle-of-a-place, and she indulged me in a few questions about her journey to parenthood and to authorhood.  This is the first of four parts.

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You decided to become a tour guide for an island where no one wants to go. Huh?
Well, someone had to do it! Actually, there are a lot of really good books out there for infertility, but they were all missing items here and there. I wanted to cover the basics, but also make sure that all of the questions I still had after I put those books down were answered. Such as what happens if you hit a blood vessel during an injection? Or what are the various IVF protocols?

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ROCHESTER, Minn. (AP) ?After packing their bags, Nicole Brueck and her husband, Aaron, waited for the phone call that they hoped would bring them closer to their dream.

For nearly a year, the Rochester couple had been working to adopt a child from Guatemala. And in preparing for that event, they had spent hours learning about the country’s culture and history, taking lessons in Spanish and preparing a home for the child they had yet to meet. They had also spent $10,000.

But when the call came, it brought not the news that they had been waiting for, but grief and despair. The country had shutdown its adoption program. The Brueck’s money, hopes and plans of nearly a year in the making had been dashed virtually in an instant.

Yet despite the emotional devastation the news brought her — “I was literally a pile, just a lump on my floor for two days” — Nicole wasn’t done in her efforts to adopt a child internationally. She and her husband would try again.

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Press Release:

NEW YORK, June 4 /PRNewswire/ — Conceive Magazine has again named Verizon among the 50 Best Companies in the country for offering superior family-building benefits such as financial assistance for adoptions and health insurance coverage for fertility diagnosis and treatment. This is the magazine’s third annual Best Companies list and the third consecutive year that Verizon has earned a spot.

The 50 Best Companies list, which is featured in the May/June 2009 issue of Conceive, focuses on employers that offer the best benefits for women and men hoping to be parents. The magazine surveyed more than 200 employers to develop the list.

Kim Hahn, founder of Conceive, said: “Fertility treatments and adoptions can be costly. In the current economic climate, we applaud those companies who recognize how important it is to help employees build their families.”

Verizon’s family- and adoption-friendly benefits include $10,000 per fulltime employee per adoption, with no lifetime cap, and fertility drug coverage under the company’s prescription plans.

“We want to remain an employer of choice,” said Magda Yrizarry, vice president for workplace culture, diversity and compliance at Verizon, “so we are focused on providing meaningful benefits to our employees. It’s the right thing to do and it helps us retain top talent at Verizon, which ultimately helps deliver greater value to our customers and shareholders.”

Verizon has numerous programs that benefit employees and their families. For example, in 2008, the company provided employees with 37,500 hours in emergency backup care for employees’ children — time that employees would have otherwise had to use as vacation or personal time. The company also offers employees child care and adult care locater services as well as a Geriatric Care Management program.

Verizon is equally committed to creating personal and professional opportunities for its employees, and the company’s employee development, education and training budget has totaled approximately $1 billion over the past few years. Last year alone, more than 29,000 employees benefited from $118 million in tuition assistance, which prepays 100 percent of approved tuition and fees at accredited institutions, up to $8,000 per year, per employee. The company’s commitment to training and investing in the education and professional development of its employees again placed the company on Training Magazine’s Training Top 125 list of companies that have the best training programs for their employees.

Earlier this year, the Dave Thomas Foundation named Verizon an industry leader for its adoption benefits. Verizon was also named to Working Mother magazine’s list of Best Companies for Multicultural Women; and the National Association for Female Executives named Verizon to its list of 2009 NAFE Top 50 Companies for Executive Women, which spotlights corporations with practices and employment records that benefit women and encourage their advancement to top management positions.

For the fourth consecutive year, the Women’s Business Enterprise National Council named Verizon to the council’s annual list of America’s Top Corporations for Women’s Business Enterprise. Verizon has also consistently been named to DiversityInc magazine’s list of Top 50 Companies for Diversity, earning the No. 1 ranking in 2006 and 2008.

For more information about Verizon’s commitment to employees and customers, visit www.verizon.com/about.

Verizon Communications Inc. (NYSE: VZ), headquartered in New York, is a global leader in delivering broadband and other wireless and wireline communications services to mass market, business, government and wholesale customers. Verizon Wireless operates America’s most reliable wireless network, serving more than 86 million customers nationwide. Verizon’s Wireline operations provide converged communications, information and entertainment services over the nation’s most advanced fiber-optic network. Wireline also includes Verizon Business, which delivers innovative and seamless business solutions to customers around the world. A Dow 30 company, Verizon employs a diverse workforce of more than 237,000 and last year generated consolidated operating revenues of more than $97 billion. For more information, visit www.verizon.com.

VERIZON’S ONLINE NEWS CENTER: Verizon news releases, executive speeches and biographies, media contacts, high-quality video and images, and other information are available at Verizon’s News Center on the World Wide Web at www.verizon.com/news. To receive news releases by e-mail, visit the News Center and register for customized automatic delivery of Verizon news releases.

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Agency brings together those seeking children with others who have unneeded embryos

Matthew and Jenna are 21/2-year-old fraternal twins. They share cute round faces, wide, inquisitive eyes that don’t miss a thing and cheekbones a model would die for.

They also share a history that would make them the talk of the playground if anybody their age remotely cared: They were adopted nine months before they were born, in the form of embryos created and frozen six years before that.

But, for Jim and Barbara Seebock, Matthew and Jenna are simply the answer to a prayer, even if the method of conception they chose — “embryo adoption” — represents yet another twist on what used to be the straightforward business of conception.

The Seebocks decided a few years ago to start a family. But, Jim says, “I can’t have kids, and Barbara can.”

The Seebocks could have used donor sperm to fertilize Barbara’s eggs. However, the couple decided that conception would involve either both of them or neither of them.

They began to explore adoption. But, while listening to a Christian radio station, the couple learned of the Snowflakes Embryo Adoption Program of Nightlight Christian Adoptions, a Fullerton, Calif., adoption agency.

Megan Corcoran, Snowflakes progam coordinator, said the program involves placing with prospective parents embryos that are created, but not used, by other couples who have undergone in vitro fertilization procedures.

In standard in vitro fertilization, eggs taken from a woman and sperm taken from a man are combined outside the womb and in the laboratory. Resulting embryos then are implanted into the woman, who carries one or more of them to full term and gives birth.

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ORLANDO, Fla., May 28 /PRNewswire/ — In an economy where companies are cutting back and reducing benefits, Conceive honors the 50 Best Companies across the country that offer superior family-building benefits, including fertility treatment and adoption assistance.

For the third year in a row, Conceive, a national publication devoted to pre-pregnancy health and fertility, has ranked the top companies in America that continue to help employees build their families. The top 10 for 2009 includes Citizens Financial Group/RBS Americas, Arnold & Porter, Baker & McKenzie, Barilla America, the Boston Consulting Group, Deutsche Bank, Exceptional Software Strategies Inc., Harvard University, Kozy Shak Enterprises, and National Futures Association.

Based on a one- to four-star ranking system, the companies that received the most stars were those that offer more than $100,000 for ART (assisted reproductive technologies, including IVF) or $60,000 for treatment combined with generous paid leave. And for the adoption criteria, four stars went to companies that give more than $15,000 toward the adoption of a child (or $10,000 combined with a very generous paid leave for adoptive primary caregivers).

“Fertility treatments and adoptions can be costly. In the current economic climate we applaud those companies who recognize how important it is to help employees build their families,” says Kim Hahn, founder of Conceive.

To find Conceive’s 50 Best Fertility-Friendly and Adoption-Friendly Companies for 2009, surveys were sent out to over 200 companies. Leads and suggestions also came in from blogs and Internet postings at places such as INCIID (The InterNational Council on Infertility Information Dissemination Inc.), readers’ tips, and industry leaders and nonprofit organizations.

The complete 50 Best Companies listing and story are available at http://conceiveonline.com/fifty-best.

About Conceive:

Published five times a year, Conceive provides advice and tips on all aspects of fertility and family planning, including health, fitness, medicine, and lifestyle. Conceive is available at ob/gyn offices nationwide, as well as Babies ‘R’ Us and national bookstores. Also available from Conceive are three new books: The Fertility Journal: A Day-by-Day Guide to Getting Pregnant, Fertility Facts: Hundreds of Tips for Getting Pregnant, Cooking to Conceive (available for pre-order at www.chroniclebooks.com), and the weekly online podcast Conceive On-Air hosted by Kim Hahn.

Website: http://www.conceiveonline.com

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After the uproar over the octuplets born in California and the choices made by Nadya Suleman and her doctor, it seems that the whole world is paying attention to the fertility industry.

And one of the options for couples who are struggling to conceive is starting to gain some attention, particularly in light of Suleman’s claims that she simply couldn’t allow her “leftover” embryos to go, well, unused. (Thus her reasoning behind implanting all of her remaining 6 embryos, 2 of which later split in utero.)

Another option she might have considered? Embryo adoption.

Embryo adoption is the process by which parents who have created embryos, usually in preparation for IVF (in-vitro fertilization), then go on to allow other couples to ‘adopt’ the embryos instead of using the embryos themselves.

It’s a relatively new concept, and one that is very exciting to some people.

One of the many aspects that some couples find appealing is the relatively low cost of the adoption, which can range anywhere from $2000-5000. Compared to repeated IVF attempts or the adoption of a live child, the cost can be considerably less. The process can take anywhere between 6-12 months to complete.

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